Asthi Visarjan at Varanasi FAQs
Are there specific things one should not wear or bring to the Asthi Visarjan ritual?
Simplicity and purity are key:
- Clothing: Avoid black clothing, as it’s often considered inauspicious for such rites. Also avoid overly bright, flashy, or revealing attire. Stick to simple, clean clothes, preferably white, off-white, or light, sober colors. Leather items (belts, wallets, shoes) are often discouraged during the core ritual; remove them if possible.
- Items: Avoid bringing unnecessary distractions like excessive electronics, food items (unless for offering/Daan), or valuables that might cause anxiety. Focus should be on the ritual. Maintain physical and mental purity – avoid alcohol or non-vegetarian food before the ritual.
What rules to follow for asthi visarjan in Varanasi?
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- Store the Ashes Properly: Keep the ashes in a mud pot (Kalash) covered with a red cloth.
- Transportation: While traveling to the ghat, do not place the Kalash on the ground.
- Dress Code: Males should wear a white dhoti during the poojan.
- Select an Experienced Pandit: Choose a pandit who is well-versed in the rituals and can perform the poojan correctly. Contact us to know more.
- Community-Specific Rituals: Be aware that each community may have slightly different rituals for asthi visarjan. Ensure your pandit is familiar with your community’s traditions.
- Environmental Consideration: Perform the ritual in an environmentally conscious manner, respecting the sanctity of the river and the city.
Is there a specific best time or auspicious day for Asthi Visarjan in Varanasi?
- Unlike annual Shradh, Asthi Visarjan in the holy Ganga at Kashi can be performed on any day and at almost any time during daylight hours. The act itself is supremely purifying.
- It is generally advised to perform the immersion without unnecessary delay after the ashes are collected.
- While any day is good, performing it during religiously significant periods like Pitru Paksha, Ekadashi, Purnima, or Amavasya might be considered to add further merit, but waiting is not required. Avoid performing the immersion after sunset.
What is the core spiritual belief behind immersing ashes specifically in Kashi Ganga compared to other holy rivers or places?
The core belief specific to Kashi stems from its identity as Lord Shiva’s city and the place of Moksha:
- Shiva’s Grace: Immersion in the Ganga here is believed to directly invoke Lord Shiva’s grace. The Taraka Mantra whispered by Shiva is thought to liberate the soul instantly, bypassing further karmic cycles or journeys through other realms.
- Ganga’s Ultimate Power: While Ganga is holy everywhere, in Kashi, her power is considered amplified by the sacred geography and Shiva’s presence. She becomes not just a purifier but a direct vehicle to liberation.
- Breaking the Cycle: Unlike other places where immersion might grant peace or higher realms (Swarga), Kashi specifically emphasizes Moksha – the ultimate release from the cycle of birth and death. This is the unique promise of performing the final rites, including Asthi Visarjan, in Varanasi.
What should be done if the urn or ashes are accidentally dropped or mishandled during travel or before the ritual?
Accidents can happen, my child. If such an unfortunate incident occurs:
- Remain Calm: Do not panic.
- Collect Respectfully: Gather the ashes as completely and respectfully as possible. If spilled on clean ground, collect the ashes along with a small amount of the soil.
- Purification: Inform the Pandit upon arrival in Varanasi. They can perform specific purification mantras (Prayashchit) before proceeding with the Visarjan to remedy any inadvertent disrespect or contamination.
- The intention (Bhavana) remains most important. The deities understand human fallibility.
Is it necessary to hire a Pandit for Asthi Visarjan in Varanasi and How can I find one?
- Yes, engaging a local Kashi Pandit who understands the specific mantras and significance of performing rites on the Ganga here is highly recommended. They ensure the procedure is followed correctly, maximizing the spiritual benefit.
- Finding a Pandit
- At the Ghats: You will find many Pandits offering services at the main ghats. It’s wise to speak to a few or seek one associated with known establishments.
- Temple References: Pandits associated with major temples like Kashi Vishwanath can be sought.
- Recommendations: Ask for references from your hotel, trusted locals, or friends who have performed rites here.
- Online Services: Verified Pandit services are available online for Varanasi, which can help pre-book and avoid uncertainty. Always discuss the procedure and Dakshina beforehand.
Can foreigners or people of faiths other than Hinduism perform or witness Asthi Visarjan in Varanasi?
Performing: Asthi Visarjan is fundamentally a Hindu ritual tied to beliefs about the soul, reincarnation, and Moksha through the Ganga. While the core act might be performed by anyone with faith, the accompanying Vedic rituals and mantras are specific to Hindu tradition, usually performed by family members or designated priests. If a deceased person of another faith wished for their ashes to be immersed in Ganga out of personal reverence, it can be done respectfully, perhaps with simpler prayers according to their belief or universal prayers for peace, possibly without the full Vedic rites.
Witnessing: Foreigners and people of other faiths can generally witness the ritual from a respectful distance at most public ghats. However, sensitivity is crucial. Avoid intrusive photography, maintain silence, and respect the family’s privacy during their solemn moment. At cremation ghats like Manikarnika, while observation is often permitted, extreme sensitivity and unobtrusiveness are expected.
Why is Varanasi considered such an important place for Asthi Visarjan?
Kashi is Moksha-Dayini, the city that grants liberation. It is the eternal abode of Lord Shiva. When the last physical remains (asthi) are immersed in the holy Ganga river within the sacred boundaries of Kashi, it is believed that Lord Shiva himself whispers the Taraka Mantra in the ear of the soul, freeing it from the cycle of rebirth. Maa Ganga, originating from the heavens, washes away sins and purifies the soul. Performing Asthi Visarjan here ensures the departed attains Sadgati (a peaceful state) and moves towards ultimate liberation.
What safety precautions should be taken while performing the ritual at the ghats or in the river?
Safety is important amidst devotion:
- Ghat Steps: Be very careful on the ghat steps, which can be steep, uneven, and slippery, especially during or after rains or near the water’s edge. Hold onto railings if available, or take assistance.
- River Currents: Maa Ganga’s currents can be strong, even near the banks. Do not venture deep into the water unless you are a strong swimmer and familiar with the conditions. For the ritual bath (Snan), stay in shallow areas or use the safety chains often installed at major ghats.
- Boat Safety: If taking a boat for mid-stream immersion, ensure it is not overloaded and follow the boatman’s instructions. Life jackets might be available or advisable, especially for children/non-swimmers.
- Crowds: Be mindful of your surroundings and belongings, especially at crowded ghats like Dashashwamedh or Manikarnika.
- Health: Stay hydrated, especially in summer. Be cautious about hygiene.
Can Asthi Visarjan be combined with other rituals like Shradh or Pitru Dosh Nivaran Puja in the same trip to Varanasi?
Yes, it is quite common for families, especially those travelling long distances, to combine Asthi Visarjan with other related rituals during the same visit to Kashi:
- Tarpan/Simple Pind Daan: Often performed immediately after Asthi Visarjan.
- Annual Shradh: If the visit coincides with the death anniversary, Tithi or Pitru Paksha.
- Tripindi Shradh/Narayan Bali: If required for ancestors with unnatural deaths or for whom rites were missed (often performed at Pishach Mochan Kund, requiring separate arrangements).
- Pitru Dosh Nivaran Puja: Specific pujas to alleviate ancestral afflictions.
Discuss your requirements with the Pandit in advance to plan the schedule and logistics, as different rituals may require different locations (ghats, specific temples like Pishach Mochan) and preparations.