Shradh at Varanasi FAQs
When is the best time to perform Shradh in Varanasi?
- The most significant period is Pitru Paksha, the 16-lunar-day period usually falling in the Hindu month of Bhadrapada (around September-October). Performing Shradh during Pitru Paksha, especially on the Tithi (lunar day) corresponding to the ancestor’s death, is considered highly effective.
- Other auspicious times include the death anniversary (Varshik Shradh), Amavasya (new moon day) of every month, and during specific pilgrimages. However, in Kashi, the merit is such that Shradh can be performed on almost any day with reverence, seeking guidance from a knowledgeable Pandit for the appropriate Muhurta (timing).
Apart from Shradh what other rituals can be done in Varanasi for the peace of a departed loved one?
Varanasi offers many ways to honor the departed:
- Asthi Visarjan: Immersing the ashes (asthi) in the Holy Ganga at Varanasi is considered highly auspicious, aiding the soul’s journey to Moksha.
- Recitation of Scriptures: Arranging for recitation of texts like the Garuda Purana, Bhagavad Gita, or specific Stotrams for the peace of the soul.
- Deep Daan: Offering lamps (diy[5]as) on the Ganga, especially during evenings or specific festivals, in memory of the departed.
- Feeding the Needy/Cows/Animals: Performing Annadaan (food charity) or feeding sacred animals like cows in the name of the ancestor.
- Temple Pujas: Sponsoring specific Pujas or offerings at Kashi Vishwanath or other temples, dedicating the m[12]erit to the ancestor.
- Simply meditating by the Ganga, remembering the loved one, and praying for their peace also carries immense spiritual weight in this holy city.
What is the significance of Pind Daan specifically during Shradh in Varanasi?
Pind Daan is the heart of the Shradh ritual. The ‘Pinda’ (rice/barley ball) is offered as a symbolic body for the ancestor’s soul (Atma). It is believed that this offering provides nourishment and energy to the departed souls, helping them in their journey after death.
In Varanasi, performing Pind Daan on the banks of the Ganga is exceptionally potent. It is believed that Lord Shiva himself grants liberation to souls whose last rites or Shradh are performed here. This act helps free the ancestors from attachments, sufferings, or unfavorable states (like Preta Yoni) and propels them towards Moksha (liberation), which is the ultimate goal. Offering Pind Daan in Kashi is considered one of the highest duties a descendant can perform for their ancestors.
What happens if Shradh is not performed for ancestors?
Performing Shradh is a sacred duty (Pitru Runa – debt to ancestors). Failing to perform these rites, especially if one is capable, can leave the ancestors’ souls unsatisfied.
It is believed that unsatisfied Pitrus may linger between realms and might cause disturbances or obstacles (known as Pitru Dosh) in the lives of their descendants. These can manifest as health problems, financial difficulties, delays in marriage or childbirth, lack of peace in the family, or recurring negative patterns.
Performing Shradh helps provide peace (Shanti) and energy (Gati) to the ancestors, liberating them and, in turn, securing their blessings for the prosperity, health, and well-being of the family. It clears the path for both the ancestors and the descendants
Do I need a Pandit to perform Shradh in Varanasi and how do I find a trustworthy one?
Yes, it is highly recommended to engage a qualified and experienced Pandit (Purohit). Shradh involves specific mantras, procedures, and understanding of lineage (Gotra) which a knowledgeable Pandit can guide you through correctly.[2] Performing the ritual accurately maximizes its benefit for the ancestors.
Finding a Pandit:
- References: Ask for references from your family priest, trusted friends, or relatives who have performed rituals in Varanasi.
- Temple Associated Pandits: Major temples often have associated Pandits.
- Ghat Pandits: You will find many Pandits at the Ghats, but it’s wise to verify their credentials or seek recommendations.
- Reputable Organisations/Services: Several organisations now offer verified Pandit services, sometimes even allowing pre-booking. Do check their reputation. Always discuss the procedure and Dakshina beforehand to avoid confusion. Many Pandits are proficient in various regional languages (like Telugu, Tamil, Marathi, etc.).
Can Shradh rituals be performed online or remotely if I cannot travel to Varanasi?
Yes, in recent times, especially for those unable to travel (like NRIs, elderly, or due to health/work constraints), some Pandits and organizations in Varanasi]i offer online Shradh services.
How it works: You provide the necessary details (ancestor names, Gotra, etc.). The Pandit performs the rituals (Pind Daan, Tarpan) on your behalf at the designated Ghat in Varanasi at an agreed time. Often, this is done via live video call (like Zoom, WhatsApp video) so you can witness and participate remotely. They may also send you a recording afterwards.
Reliability: While convenient, ensure you choose a reputable and trustworthy service. Check reviews, ask for references if possible, and confirm exactly what will be performed and how you can participate/verify it. While physical presence holds immense significance, performing the rites remotely with faith is certainly better than not performing them at all, as per interpretations of scriptures like the Garuda Purana allowing rites by proxy
Are there any specific food restrictions I need to follow strictly during my visit for Shradh?
Yes, maintaining dietary purity is important for the sanctity of the ritual. On the day of Shradh, and ideally during the entire Pitru Paksha, if you are here for that period:
- Strict Vegetarianism: Absolutely avoid all meat, fish, poultry, and eggs.
- Avoid Tamasic/Rajasic Foods: Refrain from consuming onion, garlic, brinjal (eggplant), masoor dal (red lentils), and excessively spicy or oily foods. These are believed to cloud the mind and generate negative energy.
- Avoid Stale Food: Offerings and food consumed should be freshly prepared. Leftover food is considered impure.
- Alcohol and Tobacco: These are strictly prohibited.
- Many devout individuals observe a fast until the Shradh rituals are completed, often eating only one simple meal later in the day. Following these helps maintain the required Sattvic (pure) state of body and mind
What Samagri are required for Shradh and where can I get them?
- The common materials include rice flour, barley flour (Jau), black sesame seeds (kala til), Kusha grass (sacred grass), honey, milk, ghee, flowers, fruits, betel leaves/nuts, incense, lamp, water pot, white thread, and specific leaves like Tulsi.
- You need not worry about bringing these from afar. All necessary Puja Samagri is readily available in shops near the Ghats and temples in Varanasi. Often, the Pandit you engage will arrange for the required materials as part of their service.
What should I do after completing the Shradh ritual in Varanasi are there any follow up actions?
After the main Shradh rites (Pind Daan, Tarpan) are completed at the Ghat, and you have offered Dakshina to the Pandit:
- Brahman Bhojan: If part of your Sankalpa, ensure the feeding of Brahmins is completed satisfactorily.
- Pancha Bali: Ensure offerings to the cow, dog, crow, ants, and Devas have been made.
- Holy Dip: Taking another dip in the Ganga after the rituals is customary for purification.
- Temple Visit: Visiting the Kashi Vishwanath Temple and other important temples [9](like Annapurna Mandir, Kalabhairav Mandir) to seek blessings is highly recommended. Dedicate the merit (Punya) of your pilgrimage and rituals to your ancestors.
- Charity (Daan): Giving charity (food, clothes, money) to the needy is considered very meritorious after Shradh.
- Maintain Respect: Continue to maintain a respectful and pious attitude for the remainder of the day.
What is the expected cost for performing Shradh in Varanasi?
- The cost is not fixed and can vary significantly based on:
- The Pandit’s experience and reputation.
- The elaborateness of the ritual performed.
- The number of Brahmins involved or fed (if applicable).
- The cost of Samagri.
- Dakshina (the offering given to the Pandit) is crucial.
- As a very rough estimate, costs can range from a few thousand rupees (e.g., ₹4000-₹7000 for a basic Pind Daan) to upwards of ₹11,000 – ₹15,000 or more for more elaborate rituals like Tripindi Shradh involving multiple priests and detailed procedures. Some online services quote package prices.
- It is essential to have a clear discussion with the Pandit about all expected costs, including Samagri and Dakshina, before starting the ritual to ensure transparency.