Shradh at Varanasi FAQs
What should I do after completing the Shradh ritual in Varanasi are there any follow up actions?
After the main Shradh rites (Pind Daan, Tarpan) are completed at the Ghat, and you have offered Dakshina to the Pandit:
- Brahman Bhojan: If part of your Sankalpa, ensure the feeding of Brahmins is completed satisfactorily.
- Pancha Bali: Ensure offerings to the cow, dog, crow, ants, and Devas have been made.
- Holy Dip: Taking another dip in the Ganga after the rituals is customary for purification.
- Temple Visit: Visiting the Kashi Vishwanath Temple and other important temples [9](like Annapurna Mandir, Kalabhairav Mandir) to seek blessings is highly recommended. Dedicate the merit (Punya) of your pilgrimage and rituals to your ancestors.
- Charity (Daan): Giving charity (food, clothes, money) to the needy is considered very meritorious after Shradh.
- Maintain Respect: Continue to maintain a respectful and pious attitude for the remainder of the day.
Do I need a Pandit to perform Shradh in Varanasi and how do I find a trustworthy one?
Yes, it is highly recommended to engage a qualified and experienced Pandit (Purohit). Shradh involves specific mantras, procedures, and understanding of lineage (Gotra) which a knowledgeable Pandit can guide you through correctly.[2] Performing the ritual accurately maximizes its benefit for the ancestors.
Finding a Pandit:
- References: Ask for references from your family priest, trusted friends, or relatives who have performed rituals in Varanasi.
- Temple Associated Pandits: Major temples often have associated Pandits.
- Ghat Pandits: You will find many Pandits at the Ghats, but it’s wise to verify their credentials or seek recommendations.
- Reputable Organisations/Services: Several organisations now offer verified Pandit services, sometimes even allowing pre-booking. Do check their reputation. Always discuss the procedure and Dakshina beforehand to avoid confusion. Many Pandits are proficient in various regional languages (like Telugu, Tamil, Marathi, etc.).
What is the expected cost for performing Shradh in Varanasi?
- The cost is not fixed and can vary significantly based on:
- The Pandit’s experience and reputation.
- The elaborateness of the ritual performed.
- The number of Brahmins involved or fed (if applicable).
- The cost of Samagri.
- Dakshina (the offering given to the Pandit) is crucial.
- As a very rough estimate, costs can range from a few thousand rupees (e.g., ₹4000-₹7000 for a basic Pind Daan) to upwards of ₹11,000 – ₹15,000 or more for more elaborate rituals like Tripindi Shradh involving multiple priests and detailed procedures. Some online services quote package prices.
- It is essential to have a clear discussion with the Pandit about all expected costs, including Samagri and Dakshina, before starting the ritual to ensure transparency.
Are there any specific preparations or rules I need to follow before and during the Shradh ritual?
Yes, certain rules enhance the sanctity:
- Purity: Take a bath (preferably in the Ganga) before the ritual. Wear clean, simple clothes (often white dhoti for men, simple saree for women; new unwashe,d clothes are sometimes specified for rituals like Tripindi Shradh).
- Diet: Maintain a simple vegetarian (Sattvic) diet on the day of Shradh. Avoid non-vegetarian food, onion, garlic, alcohol, etc., during the Pitru Paksha period if possible, or at least on the day of the ritual. Some observe fasting until the ritual is complete.
- Conduct: Maintain a solemn, respectful, and devotional attitude throughout. Avoid arguments or negative thoughts.
- Hygiene: Traditionally, shaving and haircuts are avoided during Pitru Paksha until the Shradh is completed.
- Family Participation: Ideally, the eldest son performs the rites, but other male members can participate. In the absence of male heirs, women can also perform Shradh.
What happens if Shradh is not performed for ancestors?
Performing Shradh is a sacred duty (Pitru Runa – debt to ancestors). Failing to perform these rites, especially if one is capable, can leave the ancestors’ souls unsatisfied.
It is believed that unsatisfied Pitrus may linger between realms and might cause disturbances or obstacles (known as Pitru Dosh) in the lives of their descendants. These can manifest as health problems, financial difficulties, delays in marriage or childbirth, lack of peace in the family, or recurring negative patterns.
Performing Shradh helps provide peace (Shanti) and energy (Gati) to the ancestors, liberating them and, in turn, securing their blessings for the prosperity, health, and well-being of the family. It clears the path for both the ancestors and the descendants
What are the accommodation and logistical arrangements like near the Ghats?
- Varanasi caters to pilgrims of all means. Near the main Ghats (like Dashashwamedh, Assi, Manikarnika), you will find a wide range of options:
- Dharamshalas and Ashrams: Many offer basic, clean, and very affordable lodging, often run by religious trusts.
- Guest Houses & Budget Hotels: Numerous guest houses are located in the narrow lanes near the ghats, offering simple rooms at reasonable prices. Many cater specifically to pilgrims.
- Mid-Range and Boutique Hotels: Several comfortable hotels with better amenities are available slightly further from the immediate ghat front but still within easy walking or rickshaw distance.
- Luxury Hotels: For those seeking higher comfort, there are premium and luxury hotels, though often situated a bit away from the most congested ghat areas.
- Logistics: Local transport, like auto-rickshaws and cycle-rickshaws, is abundant. Some ghats, like Raj Ghat are more accessible by car. Many service providers and Pandits can assist with arranging transport and even accommodation if contacted in advance. Booking accommodation, especially during peak seasons like Pitru Paksha, is advisable.
Apart from Shradh what other rituals can be done in Varanasi for the peace of a departed loved one?
Varanasi offers many ways to honor the departed:
- Asthi Visarjan: Immersing the ashes (asthi) in the Holy Ganga at Varanasi is considered highly auspicious, aiding the soul’s journey to Moksha.
- Recitation of Scriptures: Arranging for recitation of texts like the Garuda Purana, Bhagavad Gita, or specific Stotrams for the peace of the soul.
- Deep Daan: Offering lamps (diy[5]as) on the Ganga, especially during evenings or specific festivals, in memory of the departed.
- Feeding the Needy/Cows/Animals: Performing Annadaan (food charity) or feeding sacred animals like cows in the name of the ancestor.
- Temple Pujas: Sponsoring specific Pujas or offerings at Kashi Vishwanath or other temples, dedicating the m[12]erit to the ancestor.
- Simply meditating by the Ganga, remembering the loved one, and praying for their peace also carries immense spiritual weight in this holy city.
Are there any specific food restrictions I need to follow strictly during my visit for Shradh?
Yes, maintaining dietary purity is important for the sanctity of the ritual. On the day of Shradh, and ideally during the entire Pitru Paksha, if you are here for that period:
- Strict Vegetarianism: Absolutely avoid all meat, fish, poultry, and eggs.
- Avoid Tamasic/Rajasic Foods: Refrain from consuming onion, garlic, brinjal (eggplant), masoor dal (red lentils), and excessively spicy or oily foods. These are believed to cloud the mind and generate negative energy.
- Avoid Stale Food: Offerings and food consumed should be freshly prepared. Leftover food is considered impure.
- Alcohol and Tobacco: These are strictly prohibited.
- Many devout individuals observe a fast until the Shradh rituals are completed, often eating only one simple meal later in the day. Following these helps maintain the required Sattvic (pure) state of body and mind
What is Tripindi Shradh and why is it specifically done at Pishach Mochan Kund in Varanasi?
Tripindi Shradh is a special ritual performed to bring peace to ancestors whose Shradh rites might not have been performed regularly (perhaps for three consecutive years), or for those who suffered an unnatural or untimely death (like accidents, suicide, murder). It addresses ancestors from the last three generations whose souls might be lingering in an unsatisfied state (Preta Yoni). It involves invoking Brahma, Vishnu, and Mahesh (Shiva) and offering Pindas to pacify these souls.
Pishach Mochan Kund in Varanasi is uniquely powerful for this ritual. It is believed to predate even the arrival of Ganga Maiya on earth. Performing Tripindi Shradh here is said to specifically liberate souls suffering due to untimely death or those stuck in spirit-obstruction states (Pishach Yoni), granting them Sadgati (peaceful passage). The Garuda Purana and Skanda Purana mention its significance. It’s considered the primary place for such specific Shradh karmas.
Can Shradh rituals be performed online or remotely if I cannot travel to Varanasi?
Yes, in recent times, especially for those unable to travel (like NRIs, elderly, or due to health/work constraints), some Pandits and organizations in Varanasi]i offer online Shradh services.
How it works: You provide the necessary details (ancestor names, Gotra, etc.). The Pandit performs the rituals (Pind Daan, Tarpan) on your behalf at the designated Ghat in Varanasi at an agreed time. Often, this is done via live video call (like Zoom, WhatsApp video) so you can witness and participate remotely. They may also send you a recording afterwards.
Reliability: While convenient, ensure you choose a reputable and trustworthy service. Check reviews, ask for references if possible, and confirm exactly what will be performed and how you can participate/verify it. While physical presence holds immense significance, performing the rites remotely with faith is certainly better than not performing them at all, as per interpretations of scriptures like the Garuda Purana allowing rites by proxy