Asthi Visarjan at Prayagraj FAQs
When is the best time or day to perform Asthi Visarjan in Prayagraj?
- Unlike Shradh, which has specific periods like Pitru Paksha, Asthi Visarjan can generally be performed on any day. There is no strict requirement for an auspicious Muhurta, as the act itself is considered purifying.
- However, it’s often advised to perform it as soon as reasonably possible after collecting the ashes post-cremation.
- Performing it during daylight hours is standard practice. Avoid immersion after sunset.
- Some periods, like Pitru Paksha, Magh Mela, or Amavasya day, are considered highly potent due to the increased spiritual energy at the Sangam, but it is not mandatory to wait for these times.
What should be done after the Asthi Visarjan is completed?
After the immersion and offering Dakshina/Daan:
- Holy Dip: It is customary for the Karta and accompanying family members to take a purifying bath (Snan) at the Sangam.
- Change Clothes: Change into fresh clothes after the bath.
- Temple Visits: Visiting nearby temples like Bade Hanuman Ji Mandir or Alopi Devi Mandir to seek blessings is common.
- Simple Meal: Have a simple, Sattvic meal afterwards.
- The primary duty towards the departed concerning their physical remnants is considered fulfilled with the immersion at a holy place like Prayagraj. Subsequently, performing annual Shradh rituals remains important.
What is the best time to perform Asthi Visarjan in Prayagraj?
The best time for Asthi Visarjan in Prayagraj is during the Pitru Paksha period, which falls between September and October. This 16-day period is dedicated to paying homage to one’s ancestors. However, the ritual can be performed at any time of the year, with some families choosing dates that hold personal significance or are recommended by their family priests.
How should the ashes be handled and stored before bringing them to Prayagraj?
The ashes (Asthi) should be treated with utmost respect as they represent the last physical connection to the departed.
- Collection: Collect them cleanly after cremation, usually on the third day or as per family custom.
- Container: Place them in a clean earthen pot (Kalash/urn) or a copper/brass urn. Avoid plastic if possible.
- Wrapping: Wrap the urn securely in a clean, new cloth, typically white or red cotton.
- Storage: Keep the urn in a clean, pure, and respectful place in the home, often near the family altar or in a designated spot. Avoid placing it on the floor directly; use a clean cloth or pedestal. Maintain purity in the area where the ashes are kept. Do not take them into impure places (like bathrooms).
What specific etiquette or precautions should be observed during the boat ride and the ritual at the Sangam?
Maintaining reverence is paramount:
- Purity: Ensure you have bathed and are wearing clean, simple clothes before boarding the boat.
- Conduct: Maintain silence or speak softly and respectfully on the boat. Avoid casual chatter, arguments, or using mobile phones excessively during the ritual time. Focus on the solemnity of the occasion.
- Footwear: Remove footwear before stepping onto the ritual platform or performing the rites on the boat, as guided by the Pandit.
- Offerings: Do not throw any non-biodegradable items (like plastic wrappers) into the river. Offer only the prescribed Samagri.
- Instructions: Listen carefully and follow the Pandit’s instructions throughout the ritual.
- Respect the Rivers: Treat the Sangam with utmost reverence. Avoid spitting or any impure actions while on or near the water.
Can ashes of more than one person be immersed together during the same ritual?
Generally, it is recommended to perform the Asthi Visarjan ritual separately for each individual, with a distinct Sankalpa (vow) mentioning their specific name and Gotra. This ensures the prayers and merits are directed appropriately to each soul.
However, if circumstances necessitate (e.g., ashes of both parents collected together, or logistical constraints), a knowledgeable Pandit can guide you on how to perform the immersion during the same trip, possibly with slightly modified procedures or separate Sankalpas within the same session. It is best to consult the performing Pandit about this specific situation beforehand.
Can Asthi Visarjan be performed remotely or online if I cannot travel to Prayagraj?
- Yes, similar to Shradh rituals, some Pandits and specialized service providers in Prayagraj now offer remote or online Asthi Visarjan services.
- Process: You would need to securely ship the ashes (following all regulations) to the designated Pandit or service provider. They will then perform the immersion ritual at the Triveni Sangam on your behalf at an agreed time. Often, they provide options for live video streaming (via WhatsApp, Zoom etc.) so you can witness the ritual remotely, or they send photos/videos afterward.
- Consideration: While physical presence is traditionally preferred, this is a valid option for those genuinely unable to travel. Ensure you choose a highly reputable and trustworthy Pandit/service, confirm all details, and understand how the process will be conducted and verified.
What Samagri are generally required for Asthi Visarjan?
The basic requirements are usually simple:
- The urn (Kalash) containing the ashes, wrapped in a clean cloth (preferably white or red).
- Flowers (especially white flowers).
- Black sesame seeds (kala til).
- Raw milk.
- A small amount of ghee and honey (optional, as advised by Pandit).
- Incense sticks (agarbatti) and a lamp (diya).
- Kusha grass.
- Water pot (Lota).
Most of these items are readily available near the Ghats. The Pandit you engage often helps arrange the necessary Samagri.
Why is Prayagraj considered significant for Asthi Visarjan?
Prayagraj, formerly known as Allahabad, is considered one of the holiest cities for performing Asthi Visarjan due to the presence of Triveni Sangam. It is also known as Teerthraj. The confluence of the Ganges, Yamuna, and Saraswati rivers is believed to have purifying powers, making it an ideal place for the ritual. The act of immersing ashes here is thought to help the soul attain peace and liberation.
What if only a small portion of the ashes is available for immersion and Is it still beneficial?
Yes, absolutely. Even if only a symbolic portion of the ashes (Asthi) is available, immersing that portion with full faith and proper ritual at the Triveni Sangam is highly beneficial and meritorious. The divine rivers accept the offering with the Bhavana (intention and emotion) behind it. The scriptures mention that even a single bone fragment immersed in the Ganga (and by extension, the Sangam) grants immense peace to the soul. Do not feel disheartened if the full quantity is not available; perform the rite with what you have.