Asthi Visarjan FAQs
Best pandit to do asthi visarjan in Varanasi?
Selecting the best pandit for asthi visarjan in Varanasi or kashi depends on the family’s specific needs, including their linguistic, regional, and caste preferences. It’s important to choose a pandit who is experienced, knowledgeable about the Vedic scriptures, and understands the family’s specific rituals and traditions. Prayag Pandits offer services to connect families with qualified pandits in Varanasi. Prayag Pandits have a team of pandits & teerth purohits in varanasi who are have been performing such rituals from last 50-60 years.
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Can ashes of more than one person be immersed together during the same ritual?
Generally, it is recommended to perform the Asthi Visarjan ritual separately for each individual, with a distinct Sankalpa (vow) mentioning their specific name and Gotra. This ensures the prayers and merits are directed appropriately to each soul.
However, if circumstances necessitate (e.g., ashes of both parents collected together, or logistical constraints), a knowledgeable Pandit can guide you on how to perform the immersion during the same trip, possibly with slightly modified procedures or separate Sankalpas within the same session. It is best to consult the performing Pandit about this specific situation beforehand.
What is the estimated cost involved for Asthi Visarjan in Varanasi?
- The cost is not fixed and depends mainly on:
- Pandit’s Dakshina: This is the main component and varies based on the Pandit.
- Samagri Cost: Usually quite minimal.
- Boat Charges: Applicable only if you hire a boat for immersion in the mid-stream (can range from ₹500 to ₹1500 or more depending on duration and boat type).
- A very approximate range for a simple Asthi Visarjan at the Ghat including Pandit Dakshina and basic Samagri could be ₹1500 to ₹4000. For rituals involving a boat ride, the cost would be higher.
- It is essential to have a clear conversation about all expected costs (Pandit fee, Samagri, boat if applicable)
Are there specific things one should not wear or bring to the Asthi Visarjan ritual?
Simplicity and purity are key:
- Clothing: Avoid black clothing, as it’s often considered inauspicious for such rites. Also avoid overly bright, flashy, or revealing attire. Stick to simple, clean clothes, preferably white, off-white, or light, sober colors. Leather items (belts, wallets, shoes) are often discouraged during the core ritual; remove them if possible.
- Items: Avoid bringing unnecessary distractions like excessive electronics, food items (unless for offering/Daan), or valuables that might cause anxiety. Focus should be on the ritual. Maintain physical and mental purity – avoid alcohol or non-vegetarian food before the ritual.
Is photography or videography appropriate during the Asthi Visarjan ritual?
This is a sensitive matter. While families may wish to document this final rite, it should be done with utmost discretion and respect:
- Focus on Ritual, Not Spectacle: The primary focus must remain on the prayers and the departed soul, not on getting perfect shots.
- Ask Permission: If involving others (like the Pandit or boatman) in photos, seek their permission.
- Avoid Intrusion: Do not obstruct the ritual process or disturb the solemn atmosphere with excessive photography/videography. Be mindful of other grieving families nearby.
- Live Streaming: If considering live streaming for relatives unable to attend, ensure it’s done unobtrusively and focuses respectfully on the rites.
- Generally, minimal and discreet recording for personal memory is acceptable, but turning it into a photo session is inappropriate.
What is the approximate cost for Asthi Visarjan service in Haridwar?
The cost varies depending on the services included, the Pandit’s experience, and whether it’s an online or in-person service. Based on available data:
- Basic ritual with Pandit and samagri (materials) might range from ₹3,000 to ₹4,000.
- Packages including the puja, materials, and priest charges often cost around ₹3,500 – ₹7,100.
- Online Asthi Visarjan services (where a Pandit performs it on your behalf) are advertised from around ₹3,500 to ₹7,100 or even ₹11,000 by different providers.
Packages might differ in inclusions (e.g., Brahmin Bhoj, additional pujas). Always clarify what is covered.
How should the ashes be handled and stored before bringing them to Prayagraj?
The ashes (Asthi) should be treated with utmost respect as they represent the last physical connection to the departed.
- Collection: Collect them cleanly after cremation, usually on the third day or as per family custom.
- Container: Place them in a clean earthen pot (Kalash/urn) or a copper/brass urn. Avoid plastic if possible.
- Wrapping: Wrap the urn securely in a clean, new cloth, typically white or red cotton.
- Storage: Keep the urn in a clean, pure, and respectful place in the home, often near the family altar or in a designated spot. Avoid placing it on the floor directly; use a clean cloth or pedestal. Maintain purity in the area where the ashes are kept. Do not take them into impure places (like bathrooms).
Do I need a Pandit for Asthi Visarjan in Prayagraj and how do I find one?
- While the act of immersion itself can seem simple, engaging a knowledgeable local Pandit (Prayagwal Panda) is highly recommended. They ensure the ritual is performed with the correct Vedic procedures, mantras, and Sankalpa, which significantly enhances the spiritual benefit for the departed soul. They guide you through each step with proper understanding and reverence.
- Finding a Pandit: You can find Pandits specializing in these rites near the Sangam Ghats (like Qila Ghat, Sangam Ghat) or through recommendations. Some reputable Pandas have offices in areas like Daraganj. Online services also connect pilgrims with verified Pandits in Prayagraj. It’s advisable to speak with them beforehand to understand the process and associated costs
Can Asthi Visarjan be performed remotely or online if I cannot travel to Prayagraj?
- Yes, similar to Shradh rituals, some Pandits and specialized service providers in Prayagraj now offer remote or online Asthi Visarjan services.
- Process: You would need to securely ship the ashes (following all regulations) to the designated Pandit or service provider. They will then perform the immersion ritual at the Triveni Sangam on your behalf at an agreed time. Often, they provide options for live video streaming (via WhatsApp, Zoom etc.) so you can witness the ritual remotely, or they send photos/videos afterward.
- Consideration: While physical presence is traditionally preferred, this is a valid option for those genuinely unable to travel. Ensure you choose a highly reputable and trustworthy Pandit/service, confirm all details, and understand how the process will be conducted and verified.
What is Asthi Visarjan and why is it important in Hinduism?
Asthi Visarjan is the Hindu ritual of immersing the ‘Asthi’ (ashes and leftover bone fragments) of a deceased person after cremation into a holy body of water. Visarjan’ means immersion. This ritual is crucial because Hindus believe it helps the departed soul break free from earthly attachments, purify their sins, and attain ‘Moksha’ (liberation or salvation), facilitating their peaceful journey to the afterlife.