Tarpan FAQs
For which ancestors is Tarpan offered in Gaya?
Tarpan is typically offered for three preceding generations (father, grandfather, great-grandfather; mother, paternal grandmother, paternal great-grandmother) and maternal ancestors (maternal grandfather, etc.). Specific Tarpan can also be done for other departed relatives, friends, or even souls one wishes to help. During Pitru Paksha, specific days are associated with particular relations (e.g., Navami for mothers).
What Samagri are needed for Tarpan in Varanasi?
Core materials include:
- Ganga Jal (Water from the Ganga River)
- Black Sesame Seeds (Kala Til)
- Barley (Jau)
- Kusha Grass (Darbha)
- A clean vessel (copper preferred)
- Optionally: White flowers, rice (Akshat), milk.
- Puja kits are readily available in Varanasi, or the assisting Pandit usually arranges them
How is the Tarpan ritual typically conducted on the Varanasi ghats?
Guided by a local Pandit (priest), the performer (Karta), after a purificatory bath in the Ganga and wearing appropriate attire (like dhoti for men), usually faces south. Using Kusha grass and a vessel (often copper), they take Ganga water mixed with black sesame seeds (kala til), barley (jau), and sometimes flowers or rice. Reciting specific mantras and the names/gotra of the ancestors, they pour the water offering (anjali) from specific parts of the hand into the Ganga, praying for the satisfaction and liberation of the Pitrus.
What is the significance of Kushavarta Ghat in Haridwar specifically for Tarpan?
Kushavarta Ghat holds a special place in Haridwar for ancestral rites. It is believed to be the spot where the sage Dattatreya performed austerities. Tradition strongly associates this Ghat with Pitru Karma (ancestral duties), making it the most sought-after and considered the most scripturally appropriate location in Haridwar for performing Tarpan and Pind Daan, ensuring maximum benefit for the ancestors.
Can Tarpan be performed in Varanasi throughout the year?
Yes, unlike some specific ritual periods, the sacredness of Varanasi and the Ganga allows for Tarpan to be performed effectively on any day of the year. Pilgrims often perform these rites whenever they visit Kashi
What is the significance of the Phalgu River for Tarpan in Gaya?
The Phalgu River is central to Tarpan and Pind Daan in Gaya. Legend states Mata Sita cursed the river to flow underground due to its falsehood, hence its sandy appearance. Despite this, the river is considered extremely holy, embodying Lord Vishnu himself. Its water, accessed by digging, is essential for the Tarpan offerings and purification baths (snan), acting as a divine medium to carry offerings to the ancestors
Who is eligible to perform Tarpan in Varanasi?
Traditionally, the eldest son performs Tarpan for his parents and ancestors. In his absence, younger sons, grandsons, great-grandsons, or other male relatives can perform it. The performer should ideally be accompanied by his wife if married
Why is Gaya considered the most important place for Tarpan?
Gaya’s paramount importance stems from Hindu mythology, particularly the story of Gayasur, a pious demon. Lord Vishnu subdued him by placing his foot on his chest, transforming him into the sacred landscape of Gaya. Gayasur was granted a boon that anyone performing ancestral rites like Pind Daan and Tarpan here would ensure the liberation of their ancestors. Lord Vishnu’s presence (as Pitrudev) and the historical performance of rites by figures like Lord Rama make Gaya uniquely potent for Tarpan
Are there any specific rules or precautions to follow while performing Tarpan in Gaya?
Yes, some key points include:
- Maintain purity (physical and mental). Take a bath before the ritual.
- Follow the instructions of the Gayawal Panda diligently.
- Perform rituals with faith (Shraddha) and devotion.
- Face the correct direction (South for Pitrus).
- Use the prescribed materials (like black sesame for Pitrus, Kusha grass).
- Offer water using the correct hand gestures.
- Observe any dietary restrictions if applicable (like avoiding non-veg, onion, garlic during Pitru Paksha).
- Be respectful of the sacred sites and maintain decorum.
- It’s often recommended (though not always mandatory) for men performing the rites to get their heads shaved (Mundan).
What is the approximate cost Dakshina for performing Tarpan in Gaya?
The cost (Dakshina given to the priest) varies widely. If performed as a standalone ritual, it might be less, perhaps in the range of INR 1000-3000. However, Tarpan is usually part of the larger Pind Daan ceremony. Costs for Pind Daan packages in Gaya can range from a basic INR 1200-5100 to more elaborate ones costing INR 11,000-21,000 or more, depending on the duration (1-day, 3-day, etc.), number of ‘vedis’ (altars) covered, and materials included. It’s advisable to agree on the Dakshina beforehand during the Sankalpa (vow). Additional costs include fees at different sites (INR 200-300 per site typically) and optional charity/donations